Mother's Day 2020

So this is my first post on my blog. Couldn't find a better day to begin the same considering the content I wished to post.. Hope you all love reading the same...

Motherhood - a name in its own. A designation which almost completes a woman. Having been one I now understand the minutest casualties it brings along and the roller coaster ride it takes you to...   

Mother of a 4 year old daughter, meaning not a very very experienced Mom, I feel I still have a lot to share on parenting and motherhood this Mothers day. 

 The quarantine period however made me more a mother and a bit less of a professional that I usually am. Coping with the COVID pandemic brought along with itself its own benefit; allowing me to spend ample time creating memories with my dainty doll.     

Coming to Motherhood and Mother's Day as well, I thought of creating a discussion panel for exchanging ideas and views.Every child might be having his / her own way of getting their wish granted and permitted. May it be crying or by being angry or by irritating the parents. A Super MOM as I refer any mom as, also might be having her own approach of getting the kiddo accept her whim.    

Well, to begin with me;I would like to share that my daughter finds a very trusted friend in me. So whenever I feel that my child is being stubborn, I try ways to connect with her emotionally. Trying to know her concern at that very point. Let my language and tone very calm which automatically helps me serve my purpose to half an extent.Partial one however is done by herself on her own when she also shares her reasons for behaving in a particular form and tries to agree with my point after a certain discussion.    

Also would like to add, that this formula of parenting, have somehow inherited from my Mom who hardly had to use any tricks then, to help us with her wishes. It always used to begin with an explanation and a valid reason for accepting things. 

What would I be without her and the habits and ideologies that she has channeled to me...!!     

Lastly would like to share my definition of MOMS.

 "Manifesting out Miracles... Yes she truly can, she truly does...!!"



Mother's Day wishes to all the MOMs out there. Stay Healthy and Cheerful Always..!  

So this Mothers Day, requesting you all mothers to come forth and share your ideas;; how you make your kids do as you say..!!

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